Although I’m not what you’d call a “religious” person, I have a certain degree of appreciation for the world philosophies that embrace the roles of women, especially those in roles of teachers and mentors. In some belief systems there are “wise women” who guide younger women and are highly respected for their experience and knowledge.
In an industry historically filled with men, women have begun to comprise a large percentage of the numbers, now. As a woman, I appreciate those that have gone before me and set a good example of a gracious and professional female. My own “wise women,” if you will…
It’s not about hearing me roar. It’s about learning how to conduct myself in a manner becoming to both women and professional photographers. This last week or so has been challenging to me on several levels and I have realized how many women have helped me through it in some way…
To the wise woman who was strong enough to say she was feeling weak and needed uplifting from her friends; You are truly a woman other women admire, and I admire you more for sharing that with us. It helped me reach out and ask for help, myself.
To the wise woman who shared her home, hearth and no-nonsense practicality: Your words of advice saved me from writing an email I would have regretted and would have ripped that “gracious” thing into shreds. *Whew* close call! Thanks.
To the wise woman who has suffered professional heartbreak quietly with dignity and class. There were a few days this past week that I thought of how you would handle a particular situation, you helped me without even knowing it.
To the wise women who are wives of photographers. Thank you for lending me your husbands when I needed their help or they needed mine. Opposite-sex colleagues is one of those ridiculously sticky wickets that bring drama that I don’t want to have to mess with. Thank you for not making it a sticky wicket.
To the wise woman who championed a cause by herself. I was humbled and embarrassed for joining in late, but thank you for setting that example. I will rise to the call much swifter next time.
To the wise woman who showed patience, skill, education, class and steel. You led, you taught, you were fair without compromise. You’ve got my respect in a way few do. Thank you for leading by example in the truest sense.
To the wise woman who taught me to “use my powers for good and not evil,” once again I relied on your mantra to channel negative energy into a positive project. You owe me a margarita. This one was hard.
To the wise women who continue to lead or walk beside me on this journey: I “got this” because of you, and you’ve instilled in me the importance of being a wise woman. I can only hope to follow in your footsteps.
Humblest thanks and deep bows of respect,
Christine